In principle, this should be called "save the shaving supply companies" day, just like Mother's Day is really "let's keep the florists in business" day. The whole idea of picking one day to appreciate one of your parents is silly. THe implication is that you do not have to the rest of the year. That's the fundamental problem with all the days/weeks/month dedicated to a particular subgroup. This month we should celebrate... fill in the blank. Does it mean only this month? If June is the gay pride month, does it mean for the other 11 months they are ashamed of themselves? or we are supposed to be ashamed of them? What if I consistently, for all 12 months of the year, do not care one way or the other what adults do to each other in the privacy of their bedrooms as long as they keep me out of it?
Either way, we should really appreciate our parents on all days of the year.
Still, the power of marketing is such that it takes on a significance that is somehow noticeable.
My best guess is that the significance is purely because it reminds your kids that you exist and they confirm that you do indeed exist. That probably comes a little later when children grow up and any means of attracting their attention is good.
My kids are still pretty young and they still like me.
My dad is still around and is not getting younger. There is a significance in that. I do not know how many more of these I will have.
I am ending up spending Father's Day away from home this time around. My daughter spent a few days with her friend. I dropped her off on Monday, went on a cross country work trip to Texas and Colorado. Now I am back to pick her up and tonight we fly home. It would have been better to be home, but I won't lie. Spending Father's Day with your daughter is a pretty good thing.